First, some background
On English, I have reviewed 690 Close Votes, 328 First Posts, 268 Low Quality Posts, 42 Late Answers, 64 Reopen Votes, and 48 Suggested Edits.
On Bicycles, I have reviewed 651 Close Votes, 1328 First Posts, 558 Low Quality Posts, 552 Late Answers, 390 Suggested Edits, and 41 Reopen Votes.
Across the various sites I've written over 570 posts.
The point I am making with this evidence is that I have a good grasp of how various sites work, that each one has it's own character, and I have contributed strongly to Stack Overflow community.
So, when I decided to join Italian, I was very careful to watch how the site works.
I saw Naming a male pet Monkey posted some days ago. With my reviewing experience, my immediate thought was it will be closed. It's not clear, and the way it was written meant any answer was as good as any other, like a survey question.
But it wasn't closed. Answers started to accumulate. Ok, I think, on this site such a question is OK. So I wrote an answer. The OP lives in Texas, and has written in English, so my answer suggested a mixture of Italian and English. With my level of Italian (very beginner), I certainly did not expect to be able to answer any question.
My answer started getting down votes, without explanation. I have done that myself, to experienced members of a site when they are known to argue.
But as a new member, I expect better. I expect to be told what I'm doing wrong. When I stood up for myself, the response from @Denis
This does not answer the question. [snip]
Is simply factually incorrect. The question asks for a monkey name, and I gave one. So it's difficult to learn from his feedback.
Then the upvoted response from @DaG confuses personal opinion with why the downvote mechanism exists (see the [help] Vote Down page:
When should I vote down? Use your downvotes whenever you encounter an egregiously sloppy, no-effort-expended post, or an answer that is clearly and perhaps dangerously incorrect. ... Down-voting should be reserved for extreme cases. It's not meant as a substitute for communication and editing.
Notice that the recommended reasons for down voting do not include whether you think the post is useful to the OP, or useful to you personally. Indeed many good answers may be much more useful to other readers.
The OP can decide for themselves of an answer is useful.
So down voting should be a fairly abstract decision, as the quote above suggests. Going beyond those reasons makes it personal.
Concluding remarks and questions
I think this situation shows a poorly run site, with poor review practices. We know very well on other sites that low quality questions attract low quality answers, so early review, especially for new members, is vital to the character and quality of a site.
I checked out the Review pages and found an astonishingly low number of reviews. My questions are
Was the question reviewed, before I brought it to the attention of @Denis and @Dag?
Was my answer reviewed, since it was a first post? If it was reviewed then one would expect some feedback, and a welcome message as is frequently done on other sites.
Is it normal on this site to be so unwelcoming to new members?
Are these cultural differences? I notice @DaG is Italian, but @Denis does not disclose his origin (in his profile - as he points out in his answer below he links to such information). Of our moderators @Charo♦'s location is Spain, and @egreg♦'s location is Italy. I am Australian.
My principle goal here is to point out the unsatisfactory way this new member has been treated, and what I believe to be a weakness in the way this Stack is being run, so that these can be addressed. As I said in my comment, I think this is bullying behavior. It's very disappointing, and I expect better of a Stack Overflow site.
I have no concern about that particular answer. It is completely unimportant to my purpose for being here, and I can easily delete it.
I thank Denis for his answer and his willingness to engage, and up voted it because it is useful / helpful to see his explanation. I do however disagree with the way he uses down votes; as discussed above I think they should be used much more cautiously than this. In my view none of the quoted reasons apply; he disagrees, but maybe he can be persuaded :-)